CLARENCE SHULER is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. Clarence is a counselor, speaker, and author of several books, including Winning the Race to Unity: Is Racial Reconciliation Really Working? Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend and Single and Free to Be Me. He and his wife, Brenda, reside in Colorado Springs, Colorado and have three adult daughters. For more information, visit www.clarenceshuler.com.